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Pregnancy Favorites | The Best Things I've Used/Worn During Pregnancy So Far

October 11, 2021 in Pregnancy, Skincare, Lifestyle, Style

I know there are people who love being pregnant and those that don’t particularly enjoy it, and I always figured I’d fall somewhere in between. This is turning out to be true, but it has certainly been tougher than I was expecting. Even on my good days, I still don’t feel like my pre-pregnancy self - there’s always some new aches and pains or a new symptom to adapt to. But I’m still overall enjoying this time, acknowledging how special it is and how grateful I am, and taking it day by day - I think it’s become easier to roll with the harder moments because it’s always made better by feeling him moving around in there. Now that I’m over halfway through my pregnancy (which is absolutely mind-blowing), I have a few things that have really made this time more comfortable.

Isabel Maternity at Target Straight Leg Jeans - The first thing I was worried about once my waistline outgrew my normal jeans was that the only maternity jeans I could find anywhere were skinny jeans. I haven’t really been a skinny jean person for years now, so I was searching high and low for something more my style that wouldn’t cost an arm and a leg. I found these straight leg maternity jeans in Target from their Ingrid & Isabel Maternity line, and they’re all I’ve been wearing to work/any time I go out. I have one pair with rips at the knees and two pairs of the plain ones (because I wear these to work). They go over the belly, which I prefer to the side-panel pants I’ve tried on. Some of the reviews say the belly panel is too tight, so I’m a little worried they won’t fit by the end of my pregnancy, but for now they’re really comfortable, and besides not being able to tuck things into a high waist like I used to, they look mostly like what I would wear pre-pregnancy.

PharMeDoc Pregnancy Pillow - I started feeling pretty uncomfortable while sleeping early on, but I was so afraid of buying anything pregnancy-related before I was out of the first trimester that I held out on ordering a pregnancy pillow. I really regret that, because this pillow is probably the best new thing I’ve bought so far. I’ve been telling people that if you’re a side sleeper, pregnant or not, you need one of these. I thought a C-shaped pillow would be best for me, but they also make U-shaped pillows, too. I like that I can have the pillow between my knees so my hips and back don’t ache during the night, and I have the closed side of the C against my back as I sleep for support. I used to toss and turn and change sleeping positions all night, but now I stay on my left side the whole time.

Born ‘Bandy’ Clogs - This is not a pregnancy-specific favorite obviously, but any time I go out these are the only shoes I want to wear. They’re super comfortable, and I feel like they put me in my best alignment when standing and walking. I’ve been more comfortable on my feet in these for long periods of time than I have been with supportive running shoes.

Lululemon Align Pocket Leggings - I’ve always heard that Lululemon leggings were worth the splurge, but I never tried them until I got pregnant, specifically because I had heard their Align line was great and adaptable for a pregnant person’s growing body. I got what I think my usual pre-pregnancy size would be based on their size chart, and so far they still fit perfectly. It doesn’t feel like the waistband will be too stretched out by the end, either. They’re so soft and comfortable, but they’re not a totally “naked-feel” legging, which I appreciate. I’m really considering getting a second pair, because right now I’m wearing my one pair as soon as they’re clean, and none of my other leggings compare.

CeraVe Eczema Relief Creamy Oil - I had heard that pregnancy can trigger extra sensitive skin or skin conditions in some people, so I was expecting the eczema I’ve battled with on my eyelids on and off to come back. But I wasn’t expecting how bad it would be - some days my eyelids were so swollen, itchy, and uncomfortable that I couldn’t even open my eyes all the way. Luckily my obstetrician said it was ok to still use the steroid cream I had been prescribed pre-pregnancy for the flareups every once in awhile, but even then I would use it for a few days in a row at most, the rash would clear up, and then it would return a few days later. I was using Avene Cicalfate cream and Aquaphor on it in between, but I was hoping I would find something else that would actually keep the eczema at bay, and I could only reach for the prescription for bad flareups instead of weekly maintenance. I happened to pop into CVS to pick up a few things, saw this single bottle of CeraVe Eczema Relief Creamy Oil sitting in the otherwise totally cleared out CeraVe section, and decided to try it. So far, it’s been working really well for me! I’ve only been using it for about a week, but I’ve already stretched about four or five extra days without any itchiness, redness, or scaliness returning after the last time I used my prescription cream. I’m impressed! It’s a thicker lotion consistency, and I use a tiny bit on both eyelids every morning and night as part of my skincare routine, and sometimes a couple more times throughout the day as needed.

Biossance 100% Squalane Oil - I know stretch marks are mostly genetic and not preventable with creams and oils, but the beauty lover in me was still excited to add a “belly oil” into my routine. I haven’t had any stretch marks yet, but my skin has started feeling a little itchy sometimes as it stretches. I actually went the responsible route here and started using a bottle of the Biossance Squalane Oil I already had instead of buying something new, and it just reminded me how much I love it. I use it all over after I shower now, and my skin just drinks it up. I like that it’s lightweight, so it doesn’t leave a greasy film on my skin or stain my clothes, but it’s still incredibly moisturizing. It’s really been easing any itchiness I’ve been getting and helps my skin feel less tight. I’m almost out of the bottle I had and already have their big bottle as a backup!

Aerie Anytime Fave Flannel Shirts - I may change my mind as I get bigger, but right now I’m hoping to not have to buy many strictly maternity clothes and instead get strategic with my outfits so I can get more use out of the clothes I do buy. I’m thinking my go-to fall/winter look is going to be the jeans mentioned above with a fitted tank (I like the Isabel Maternity ones from Target, but their A New Day ribbed tanks have been working well for me right now, too) and an open button-down shirt or cardigan. I’ve got a few tank tops in neutral colors that will go with anything, and then I can still re-wear the shirts and cardigans when I’m not pregnant, too. My favorite shirts to throw on have been these Aerie Flannels - they’re super comfortable and oversized while still being cute. I bought my normal size and I can still button it up for now if I want to.

Cuyana Small Structured Tote - I got this bag at the beginning of the year, and after a few weeks of having it I was afraid I wouldn’t get much use out of it because I kept grabbing my smaller everyday bags whenever I went out. But now that I’m pregnant I’ve been going on little day trips to visit my family more often, and I’ve been using it a lot! It fits a lot of stuff, but it isn’t overwhelming or heavy like a large tote bag. I find I need to bring more stuff with me now wherever I go, like extra snacks, water, mints for nausea, and my eczema cream, and this fits all of that without being overstuffed. I also have their Organization Insert, which fits perfectly and adds lots of pockets to help keep organized.

Do you see any of your favorites here? If you have been/are currently pregnant, what were your favorite things?

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New In Beauty | New Launches I'm Loving

October 05, 2021 in Makeup, Skincare

I’ve slowly been trying to get back into the routine of blogging/content creating - I’ve missed it, but it’s really hard to pick it back up when you’ve left it as long as I have! I’ve still been testing new products here and there as new launches that I’m interested in come out. These are the things I’ve been reaching for the most lately.

Beautyblender BOUNCE Always On Radiant Skin Tint - You know me, I hear the words “skin tint” and it’s in my cart before I even realize what’s happening. Beautyblender’s new Skin Tint promises to provide light-medium coverage with a hydrating, radiant finish. It’s a thin, fluid formula that spreads easily over the skin and blends in seamlessly with fingers. It has more of a velvety, luminous finish than I was expecting - I thought it would be dewy and feel a bit tacky on the skin. It truly looks like the skin is “lit from within,” rather than wet. It seems to have a bit of a smoothing effect on me, too - it’s so perfecting without even looking like you have anything on! I agree with their claim of the light-medium coverage. It’s enough that some days I don’t even feel the need to use concealer.

Rare Beauty Perfect Strokes Universal Volumizing Mascara - Mascara is one of my favorite products to test, so once I saw the new Rare Beauty Mascara getting lots of attention, I knew I had to try it, too. It has a fluffy, fiber brush that’s not too big or too small. It grips every lash to comb product through, resulting in a really pretty, fluttery look. It adds length and volume, but if you’re looking for drama, you may want to look elsewhere. The finish is more subtle and perfect for an everyday look. The formula is more on the dry side, which I like, because it doesn’t clump or weigh down the lashes. My lashes are pretty picky and I find it doesn’t smudge or flake throughout the day, and it holds a curl well. It’s an everyday winner!

Kate McLeod Face Stone - I apologize mine doesn’t look as picture-perfect as the one on the Kate McLeod website, unfortunately mine melted in the mailbox a bit before I could bring it inside when it was delivered! But when I first saw this launch and read its key ingredients, I was sold. Kate McLeod is known for her bestselling Body Stone solid body butters, and now has expanded the line to include a product for the face. It contains a whole bunch of oils, including meadowfoam seed oil, tamanu oil, and blue tansy oil - all things I know my skin loves. Since it’s mostly oils, I use this as the last step of my nighttime skincare routine, taking care to really give myself a nice facial massage with it (if mine was still in its original shape, the massage effect would be even better!). It keeps my skin nice and nourished until morning without being too greasy, sticky, or clogging. Note: Kate McLeod’s social media team noticed my photo of the Face Stone on my Instagram Stories mentioning it was misshapen (though I totally blamed myself for not being home to take it out of the mailbox quickly enough, and didn’t complain to them at all!), and they offered to send me a fresh one - so obviously the brand has great customer service! So I will update with prettier photos once I have the new one.

Em Cosmetics So Soft Blush - These aren’t quite as new as the other products listed here, but I haven’t had a chance to talk about them yet! I love a cream blush, especially when it’s in stick form, because they’re just so easy to use and are so good for an easy everyday look. There’s a pretty good range of shades, so I think there would be something for everyone. I love the shades Pearl Tea, a brown nude, and Baby, a pale pink, and wear them both together a lot. I wear Pearl Tea more as a bronzer, and then I blend Baby into it closer to the apples of my cheeks. They’re quite creamy and blendable, (the name “So Soft” is perfect, as they practically melt into the skin) but they set down to a satin finish that doesn’t slide around. They’re pricey, but certainly one of my favorite cream blush formulas I’ve tried.

Rose Inc Softlight Clean Dewy Hydrating Concealer - I flip-flop a lot on my everyday concealer, but right now I’m loving this new one from Rose Inc, Rose Huntington-Whiteley’s new beauty brand. Right away I noticed the coverage and how far you can “stretch” just a little bit of product. It spreads so well without losing coverage, and it blends out easily and seamlessly. It lasts throughout a workday on me without fading or caking, and it does feel quite hydrating - it doesn’t dry out or accentuate dried out acne. It has a soft luminous finish that I especially love under the eyes.

MAKE Beauty Serum Balms & Pink Matter Multi Balm - I’m grouping these together, but MAKE Beauty in general has been a new discovery to me that I’ve been loving a lot. I first got a couple of their newer Serum Balms a few weeks ago and was instantly hooked. They’re a gel-like, plush balmy lip gloss that actually do feel like a treatment. They give a sheer wash of color to the lips while nourishing them all day like a lip balm would. I love them so much that I kind of want every shade. I have Nude Nova (which I wear constantly) and Lilac Layer. Since I loved the Serum Balms so much, I just got their newest lip product, Pink Matter. This is a cushion-y lip balm that feels ever-so-slightly minty when first applied, and it makes my lips look so much smoother and plumper instantly. It has more of a thick, slippy consistency, so it doesn’t feel sticky yet doesn’t slide around. It’s been my new favorite for sure - I only wish they could somehow get it into a tube or something so I could use it on the go without sticking my fingers into a pot!

What new products have you tried lately?

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We're Having a Baby! First Trimester Q+A

September 03, 2021 in Pregnancy

I’ve been MIA on here for quite some time, but I’ve got some news - I’m pregnant! I’m a little over 15 weeks at the time of writing this, and now that I’m officially out of the first trimester, it’s starting to feel a lot more real. We are so excited for this new chapter - I love our life as a couple + 2 dogs, but I feel like it’s time for the next step. I was feeling so sick for most of the summer that I was really hunkering down at home and not posting much, so now that I’m back I wanted to do a Q+A (I collected some questions on my Instagram after announcing) about my experience so far!

How did you know you were ready for kids?

To be honest, we (or at least I) didn’t have an “aha” moment. I always knew vaguely that I wanted kids “someday,” but I didn’t know when I would ever feel ready. It’s just such a hard thing to conceptualize - like I know it’s going to be a huge change, and difficult but worth it, but how?? It wasn’t until a couple of our close friends got pregnant that we really were able to visualize what it would be like for us, and we were like, “Yeah, we’d like to do that soon.” I saw The Anna Edit answer this question on Instagram when she first announced her pregnancy as saying it felt like “there was an empty spot at their dining table for someone new,” and that feels like a good analogy to me, too. Like I’m so comfortable and happy with and full of love for our life together, it almost feels like I want another vessel to pour that excess love into.

Did you have any symptoms before finding out?

The only thing I specifically took notice of was that normally I get pretty bad mood swings/feel really low and anxious for about a week before my period is supposed to start, but I didn’t get that at all. So I kind of had a gut feeling I wasn’t going to get my period, and when it was a few days late, I took a test. I remember actually feeling really relaxed and at peace the night before I got the positive test - totally unlike me for a weeknight. It was a few days after Olive had gotten her second ACL surgery, so I couldn’t let her be off-leash outside. It was a really nice night, so I just laid a towel out and sat next to her in the grass reading a book.

How did you tell your husband?

Looking back I wish I had set up something cute, but I was just so shocked that I immediately woke him up to tell him - I had gotten up at 4:45am to pee and decided to just take the test then, and I couldn’t believe it when the faintest positive line showed up. Since the line was so faint (I know now that I was somehow only about 3.5 weeks pregnant when I got the positive - it was an early response test), I wanted him to confirm that there really was a line there! It also happened to be our 3rd wedding anniversary that day, so that felt really special and made the dinner date we had that night even more exciting and fun. If you want to see how we told our parents and a few close friends, check out this Reel on my Instagram.

Have you had any morning sickness or other symptoms?

The first trimester was a doozy - people aren’t exaggerating about those first trimester symptoms! I know some people have it way worse than I did, but I’m so happy I’m past that point now. Around week 5 some queasiness and nausea started kicking in, and for weeks 6-13 I was throwing up as soon as I woke up about every other morning. I was so nauseous all day every day, and it was a bit of a struggle to find food that I wanted to eat. I don’t think I cooked an actual meal from the beginning of June until the end of July. Luckily, I didn’t ever have any problems keeping food or water down after the initial vomiting session in the morning, I just constantly felt sick. And for the most part, now that I’m almost at 16 weeks, it’s gone away. I still have days here and there where I throw up in the morning or feel a little nauseous in the afternoon, but it’s usually not an all-day thing anymore.

I also had the most insane fatigue - for most of June I could barely drag myself off the couch. It felt like my limbs were full of sand, and it was a struggle to do any activity for more than 5 minutes. Those days are also mostly behind me, although I find the fatigue is lingering a bit more than the nausea. I still have to sit down while I fold laundry and sometimes drag a chair by the stove while I’m cooking. But I did finally make it back to my beloved kickboxing class last night!

What was one food/item/show that made you feel better when you were feeling sick?

When the nausea first kicked in, I had heard for a lot of people it isn’t so bad if you can keep food in your stomach at all times, so I constantly carried a bag of Life cereal with me to snack on, and that helped a lot. I also would feel a lot better after drinking ice cold Gatorade - my husband was buying huge bottles of the Glacier Freeze kind every week for awhile!

I also got really into Nancy Meyers and Nora Ephron movies while I was pretty much camped out on the couch (I’m pretty sure the only Instagram stories I posted during June were showing that I was watching Father of the Bride or It’s Complicated for the 20th time) - I love me a cheesy, but not-too-cheesy romcom when I’m not feeling well. Right now I’m on a big Meg Ryan kick and watch either When Harry Met Sally, Sleepless in Seattle, or You’ve Got Mail when I’m having a day where I’m not feeling well.

Have you had any cravings?

I haven’t had anything too crazy, but a few weeks ago I kept craving desserts like cheesecake, ice cream, and the most extreme one was graham crackers dipped in vanilla Funfetti frosting. But lately I’ve been wanting to eat a lot of cheddar & sour cream chips dipped in cottage cheese (I went through two bags of chips and two tubs of cottage cheese just from Tuesday to Friday last week), this very specific brand of cheddar broccoli macaroni and cheese, and peaches.

Are you worried about the weight gain?

I’m actually not at all - now that I’m feeling better I’m planning on getting back into the swing of exercising more regularly (I’m going to do a weekly kickboxing class, some prenatal yoga from the Down Dog app, and still walk the dogs 1.5 miles most days) and hoping I can stomach cooking healthier meals soon. I want to be as healthy as I can be, not for aesthetics, but to hopefully have a healthy baby and complication-free labor.

Even in this stage where my bump looks more like a bit of bloat, I feel so much more comfortable in my body than I was pre-pregnancy already. I think it’s because my stomach was the area I was most self-conscious about before, but now I have an excuse for it to not be flat! I’m already so amazed with what my body has been capable of, so it’s been easier than it was before for me to give myself grace and be grateful for it.

What has excited you most during pregnancy?

I’m just so excited to meet this little person who's going to be part me, part my husband. Seeing them (singular them, I just don’t want to say “it”!) in the ultrasounds and hearing their heartbeat has been wild and exciting, too. I couldn’t believe how much they were moving around at the 12-week ultrasound. While trying to get measurements at my last ultrasound, the baby actually seemed to look right at us and flexed their little arms - it was crazy!

Are you going to find out the sex or be surprised?

We already know what we’re having! We’re just not sharing it online until we have the chance to tell a few more people in person. I could never wait until birth to find out, and my husband wanted to know as soon as possible, too - finding out made it feel so much more real and made it easier to visualize this next phase of life. I don’t think I want to do anything too specifically-gendered in terms of nursery decorations, but it’s also been easier to come up with some ideas for that now that we know, too.

Will baby sleep in the makeup room?

I’m not sure if I ever mentioned this on the blog, but when we moved into our house a few years ago one of our spare bedrooms became my “makeup room" and yes, it’s going to be the baby’s room. We have two spare bedrooms, and our plan is to turn the bigger one into a proper guest room (mostly for when we have visitors after the baby is born), and the smaller one, currently my makeup room, will be the nursery. I’ve already been downsizing my makeup a lot and will be relocating it along with my desk into the guest room!

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